Breaking of our Family Structure.

[   By  Prabhakar kumar — http://www.MyView.com ] Dedicated to Om Sai .

Six Men Standing While Laughing                                                                                    We are  going   under  changing  mode .  Our  family    structure  has  broken   and  going towards  individual  units  where family  members  are  only  father , mother and  their  children .  Joint family  system  was  our  backbone  of  development of  family . What  is  happening today ? Every  one  wants  to   live  alone  . We  keep good  relation with other  but   this  good  relationship  never developed in our self .  Why this  happened ?   We   never  want to  adjust  with  our  family  members  because   the  bond  of  relationship is   day  by  day  losing  its  strength .   Our  relation has  today  become more  symbolic  than  earlier .  Earlier  we  live  with  our  grand parent and  uncle -anti  and  their children  together .  We  share everything  with  each  other and  whenever   any  crisis  comes , we  face  it  with  united  hand . At  that moment  we  never feel  alone .

                                                                    What  is  happening  today ?  Our family  structure has   changed  into  single unit .  We  have  to  face  everything  individually .  No  one  is  there  to   share your   happiness or  sorrow .    Think over it .  Why  we  are  moving towards single  unit family system  ?   What  is   the  gain   from  this   transformation  ?   This  is  the  matter  of  thinking  .   Several  suicidal incident  in  which  total  family or head  of  the  family   has  killed  our  family members  out of  mental and  economical  pressure .  No  one was   with   him  to   minimize  this  pressure . If  at  that  moment  his   whole  family  were  with  him , than it  may be , such  incident  could  not  take  place .   With  joint  family efforts  we  can  easily   sort out  any  problem .   In my  view , joint family  system is    one  of  power  bank  of   strength , development of   family  and individual and  source  of   happiness .  It   is  upon   us  to  choose  which  form of  family    system  is  more  good and  development  oriented .  The most affected  part of our  family is  older generation .   Due  to unit family system  ,our  old family member  are  being  badly  neglected and we  keep them  in  alone  condition .  I think this  is  the most  pathetic situation  which all are  facing or  going to  face  in  future .   In spite  this  reality , we  are  such  a foolish  who  never  try  to see  reality .   Life is like  a  journey  whose destination  is  known to  all , but  we  never   accept   this  truth .   I think  life  is  a very  golden  moment  but  this  moment will  never  continue  for  ever .  Life  is a  very hardest  journey  in which  our  family  member plays  a very  important  role  in  making  this  journey to  some  extent enjoyable  and   if you  want it  to  be more  happiest  , then live  with all   family  members and  share every  moment  of  life  with  them . This  will give  you  more    satisfaction  and  smooth  tension  free  life because  your  family will   lessen your   all  tension . It  is  my  personal  view  that  once  again   move with  family  and  realize  the  live  of  joint  family  system . ———————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————– The  End .———————————————————

 

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I am advocate and doing practice in income tax , sales tax and service tax and other legal matters.l am also a professional blogger with other blog named www.HealthTips.com hosted by blogger.com

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