[ By Prabhakar kumar — http://www.MyView.com ] Dedicated to Om Sai .
We are going under changing mode . Our family structure has broken and going towards individual units where family members are only father , mother and their children . Joint family system was our backbone of development of family . What is happening today ? Every one wants to live alone . We keep good relation with other but this good relationship never developed in our self . Why this happened ? We never want to adjust with our family members because the bond of relationship is day by day losing its strength . Our relation has today become more symbolic than earlier . Earlier we live with our grand parent and uncle -anti and their children together . We share everything with each other and whenever any crisis comes , we face it with united hand . At that moment we never feel alone .
What is happening today ? Our family structure has changed into single unit . We have to face everything individually . No one is there to share your happiness or sorrow . Think over it . Why we are moving towards single unit family system ? What is the gain from this transformation ? This is the matter of thinking . Several suicidal incident in which total family or head of the family has killed our family members out of mental and economical pressure . No one was with him to minimize this pressure . If at that moment his whole family were with him , than it may be , such incident could not take place . With joint family efforts we can easily sort out any problem . In my view , joint family system is one of power bank of strength , development of family and individual and source of happiness . It is upon us to choose which form of family system is more good and development oriented . The most affected part of our family is older generation . Due to unit family system ,our old family member are being badly neglected and we keep them in alone condition . I think this is the most pathetic situation which all are facing or going to face in future . In spite this reality , we are such a foolish who never try to see reality . Life is like a journey whose destination is known to all , but we never accept this truth . I think life is a very golden moment but this moment will never continue for ever . Life is a very hardest journey in which our family member plays a very important role in making this journey to some extent enjoyable and if you want it to be more happiest , then live with all family members and share every moment of life with them . This will give you more satisfaction and smooth tension free life because your family will lessen your all tension . It is my personal view that once again move with family and realize the live of joint family system . ———————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————– The End .———————————————————